We Left the City and Never Ever Looked Back

If you ever imagine a new beginning in the country, you're not alone. Hear what it resembles from 3 families who actually made the leap.
Who hasn't dreamed of dropping city life and relocating to the country? Maybe you've spent weekend trips browsing the regional realty listings, baffled by how far a dollar can extend: A farmhouse (with acreage!) for what a walkup studio would cost in the city?

In 2012, I made the jump, moving from Seattle to a small summertime town in Maine. I started photographing these people and interviewing them about their triumphs and difficulties in transitioning to nation living. The job took flight right away-- plainly I wasn't the only one thinking about getting away the city.

Don't take it from me. Hear it from these 3 households who left the city behind for a clean slate.

Photography by Alissa Hessler. You can find out more profiles like these on Urban Exodus and in her book Ditch the City and Go Nation.



Kenzie and Shawn Fields
When a family of New Yorkers found a wacky home in the Berkshires at a third the cost of their city coop, they figured it was fate.
Moved from: New York City City, pop. 8.5 million
Kenzie and Shawn Fields were residing in what many New York families would consider a dream situation-- a three-bedroom coop apartment or condo in a desirable Brooklyn area. It sufficed space for their household of 5, without any concern of a rent walking. To pay for living in the city, however, both Kenzie and Shawn needed to work long hours. Shawn, a painter and illustrator, worked as a studio assistant for a recognized artist and was just able to produce his own operate in his off hours.

When Kenzie's parents moved to the Berkshires, a creative center in the mountains of Massachusetts, the Fields household came for a go to and began imagining leaving the city behind. The couple desired to provide their kids a youth immersed in nature and access to great public schools. "It felt like an inspired concept," keeps in mind Shawn. "But when I thought of all the unknowns and worries, rationally it was a bad idea since what we had in the city was actually terrific." When they came across their storybook 1756 home while casually taking a look at real estate listings, however, they felt that fate was pushing their hand. "On what I believed was a lark, we looked at a house in a town with an excellent little school," says Shawn. "The home mortgage on the house had to do with a 3rd of our home's home mortgage. That visit sealed the offer."

Transferred to: New Marlborough, Mass., pop. 1,509
Shawn and Kenzie took a leap of faith and moved their family to New Marlborough. "Living in a village in the nation was an excellent response for us," states Kenzie. "We're actions from a post workplace, library, car mechanic and a general store. We live across from a rushing creek, which is reassuring. There's no deafening rural silence. Rural does not have to indicate empty and large."

Rather of continuing to work hard to further the professions of other artists, the couple chose to focus their efforts on structure Shawn's fine-art service. Quiting their stable city incomes while handling the costs of winter heating and taking care of an old home hasn't been a cakewalk, however they can't think of going back to the confined confines of city living.

Entering their home is like walking into among Shawn's narrative paintings. On a common day, their daughter, Honey, may greet you in the backyard with an animal rabbit, their boy Peter may follow you around with his brass trumpet, and their other son Odie may provide to perform a magic technique. They have gotten crafty-- repurposing wood, windows and thrifted treasures to change their cottage into a comfortable, quirky wonderland.

The kids have a lot more freedom to explore now-- they invest hours playing in the creek by their house and offering at the library down the street. And they have actually all discovered, states Kenzie, that "the opportunity to care is more present when you're out of the frustrating scale of a city. When my mother passed away, individuals we didn't know well left whole meals on our patio."

They love the natural setting of their new life, states Kenzie. That's just the start. "Playing charades with our neighbors, heating with wood, the animals, library pie sales, city center conferences. Our friends down the road invite individuals over to sing standard music every Sunday night, actually standing around the piano after supper."

Richard Blanco
A Cuban-American poet discovered the peaceful he requires to compose-- plus a sense of belonging-- in a small Maine town.
Moved from: San Antonio, Texas
At President Obama's second inauguration in 2013, Richard Blanco's reading of his poem One Today influenced the nation. What many individuals do not understand is that, recalling, he's not sure he would have been able to write the poem if he had not been restricted to his composing desk, surrounded by pine forests piled high with snow, up on a mountainside in his new home in St Louis, Missouri.

Prior to transferring to Maine, Richard lived many of his life in San Antonio. In 2012, he was working as a civil engineer and writing in his extra time when his partner, Mark, got a job that required the couple to relocate to the small ski town of St Louis, Missouri. Although Richard was a little worried at initially, he was thrilled at the possibility of leaving the traffic and sound of city life and having the chance to compose more.

And he now realizes that living in the country was a natural for him. "I believe I've constantly wanted to move to the nation," he states. Most of my family is from rural areas in Cuba, and I felt extremely at house there."

Moved to: St Louis, Missouri
Richard and Mark didn't know how this small town would receive them, but they have actually been happily shocked. St Louis has actually invited "the gay couple from San Antonio," as they were described for a while, with open arms. Homepage Richard is a respected member of the community and-- because the inauguration-- a town star.

It's been a modification. "After that honeymoon phase, the first thing that started to nag on me was having to drive all over," states Richard. And shopping is difficult: "I reside in a resort town, so I can get sushi, but I can't get inkjet cartridges or underwear." To his surprise, he likewise missed out on heading out: "In some cases you just desire to dress up and feel fantastic-- and there is nowhere to do that. I have actually outgrown all my suits living here." He likewise misses out on the anonymity of city life: "There is no such thing as simply a waiter in St Louis. You understand their entire life, and you understand their children, where they grew up ... and they know everything about you. It's lovely, however occasionally Mark and I will wish to go out to discuss something over supper and ... the walls have ears."

At home, he and Mark have actually built a personal sanctuary, complete with bridges, streams and ponds, with their own hands. There was a learning curve. "After a year of fighting the components, I had to make choices about where to stop landscaping and let nature take control of," says Richard. "I got a little carried away and made these mounds of work for myself and wound up not enjoying what I initially came here for. I had to take an action back and be all right with letting things just grow in."

After moving to the nation, Richard initially continued to work remotely on contract engineering jobs, but the less expensive expense of living in Maine permitted him to move focus and prioritize his poetry. And given that 2013, he's had the ability to work nearly totally as an author, leaving his engineering profession behind. He has actually written two many poems and acclaimed memoirs. He has actually taught writing workshops all over the world and just finished his very first fine-press book, Limits. A number of weeks before he made the journey to DC for the 2013 inauguration, he famously practiced his poem to an audience of snowmen in his front backyard.

He provides the place where he lives a great deal of credit for all this. Life in the country has actually offered him space and time to concentrate on his writing. And perhaps more importantly, it has actually finally provided him a place that feels like house.

Joe and Ashley Duggers
A surprise service challenge turned these Silicon Valley business owners into a household of rural ranchers.
Moved from: Sacramento, California
A few years back, Joe and Ashley Duggers operated and owned 11 organisations in the Silicon Valley city of Sacramento: a discovering center, a maker area, a florist shop and a play area for young children, simply among others. All this in addition to raising 4 ladies under the age of 6. They appreciated their busy, full lives but stressed that the abundance of Silicon Valley would give their daughters a skewed point of view on the world.

In 2010, they opened a farm-to-table dining establishment called Bumble however had a hard time to source ethically raised meat. This led them to a new potential venture-- running a livestock ranch that could supply meat to their restaurant. They explored the Sharps Gulch Ranch in the prairie river valley of Fort Jones, California, a short drive from the Oregon border. From here, it was a six-hour drive down I-5 to Silicon Valley, but without the insane price tag of land more detailed to the Bay Location. The home had 2 houses, one a historical Victorian in desperate need of repair work and one a relaxing two-bedroom cabin. They leapt in and bought the residential or commercial property in 2013, wishing to one day find a way to transfer to the ranch full-time.

Moved to: Fort Jones, California, pop. 688
"We constantly had a desire to raise our kids in large open areas in a more rural neighborhood," states Ashley. "Joe grew up on a farm and hoped we 'd get back to the land someday. We sold our great post to read companies and moved up the day our oldest daughter completed kindergarten and have been all-in ever because."

After four years of effort, the Duggers have developed a successful pasture-raised meat organisation. They offer their items online, in their historical brick-and-mortar shop in Fort Jones and at pop-up markets in Sacramento when they go back to visit. Looking for more methods to earn a living off the land, this year they introduced Five Ashley Retreats, where they host women at their hillside cattle ranch camp for a weekend of farm tasks and cooking classes. This January, they're opening a restaurant in Fort Jones.

The Duggers don't have the benefits, tidy clothing or free time they had in their previous life, and have had to end up being more self-dependent: "In the city, I might get anything done at the drop of a hat," says Ashley. Everything moves a bit more slowly, however living on a cattle ranch suggests you can construct anything you can imagine yourself, which is more satisfying than hiring someone to do it."

Another benefit is seeing their ladies grow into brave, independent and diligent free-range ladies. At the end of a long day, when the animals are fed, Ashley and Joe love to mix a cocktail, put a 5 Ashley roast in the oven and sit on their front patio to watch their children run totally free in the yard.

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